Wednesday, December 14, 2016

LIVE LIFE THE WAY YOU LIKE.




When you enrolled in high school, people say:
you are not brilliant enough to go to college,
you’re more fit for a blue collar job, and
it will be best for you to take a technical course..

When you enrolled in college, people say:
your course is not popular,
it is shunned by most students,
 it will not give you much in life..

When you get a job, people say:
it is too hard,
too manual,
too technical,
too tiring,
too low in salary with little economic rewards, and
few fringe benefits..

When you enrolled in the graduate school, people say:
you are dim-witted and need that to keep your job;
you are just wasting time and money,
it will not bring you much
you cannot cope up with the challenges of your job like your colleagues..

When you bought your first car, people say:
it is not new;
it is not a BMW and not even a Fortuner,
it will break down easily,
I will not ride in such a car..

When you build your own house, people say:
it is very modest,
it is not nice,
it is so diminutive for a human being to live into,
it cannot be compared to the houses in the neighborhood..

When you get into relationship, people say:
It won’t last,
It is just a fling,
He can’t sustain a relationship,
The girl will eventually wake up and leave you..

It is sad that when you do something positive for yourself:
some people will wish to see you fail;
they want to see you suffer instead of being happy;
they want you to fail instead of seeing you succeed..

HOWEVER, as long as you are honest,
proud of what you are doing,
happy of it,
not harming anyone,
not stepping on the toes of others,
KEEP GOING!
DON’T MIND WHAT OTHER PEOPLE SAY..
IT’S YOUR LIFE,
LIVE IT THE WAY YOU LIKE,

and MAKE THE MOST OF IT! 

Tuesday, December 6, 2016

LIFE PARTNER

KNOW YOUR LIFE PARTNER
BEFORE YOU SAY YES I DO

  1. Wedding is a day but marriage is a lifetime .
  2. A stingy man who is single will still be stingy when married.
  3. Silence can never be misquoted.
  4. If you want what no one has had, you must do what no one has done.
  5. When God wants to bless you, He puts a person in your life. When Satan wants to destroy you, he puts a person in your life.
  6. It is better to be single and alone than to be married to the wrong person.
  7. Avoid a contentious woman.
  8. Five kinds of men to avoid: hot tempered, womanizer, drunkard, gambler, drug dependent.
  9. Marrying a comedian does not guarantee a happy marriage.
  10. Never be yoked to anyone who will not be yoked to Christ.
  11. 3 words that echo peace in a marriage: I love you, I am sorry , Thank you.
  12. Don't waste your time meditating or dwelling on your singleness.
  13. Cohabitation is a recipe for marital failure .
  14. Deal with anti marriage dreams.
  15. Masturbation is selfishness leading to destruction.
  16. Marriage without friendship is like a sky without the sun.
  17. If you rush into marriage, you may end up with someone who will bury your destiny.
  18. A successful marriage is always a triangle : God, A man and a woman.
  19. Why you marry is as important as who you marry.
  20. Much happiness in life depends on your marital choice.
  21. A man needs divine wisdom from God in choosing who to marry.
  22. Do not place your priority on good looks ; no woman is ugly, she just needs rebranding.
  23. 3 major characteristics to look for in a woman: a. Fear of God, b. Wisdom, c. Discretion (beauty is vanity ).
  24. The best way to enslave a woman is to show her love excessively - as a rule, women don't run away from where they're pampered.
  25. Love is not blind; infatuation and lust are blind.
  26. Love puts God first, lust puts sex first.
  27. Test every love with your peace of mind, if it is absent, God is not there.
  28. If you are a true friend, you will attract true friends.
  29. Caring hearts never lack caring hands.
  30. Desperation leads to frustration.
  31. Bad marriages can be avoided before they begin.
  32. Keep your self pure and your bed undefiled.
  33. It is spiritual insanity to plan to convert someone so you can marry the person.
  34. Wage war against the devil that fought your parents' marriage.
  35. Marriage is a covenant, always look before you leap.
  36. It is better to be single and believing God to be married than to be married and believing in God to be single.
  37. A broken courtship is better than a failed marriage.
  38. Do not marry money or property, marry a person.
  39. Be presentable.
  40. Never base your selection of partner by the opinion of others.
    --- Anonymous 

Thursday, December 1, 2016

Sometimes I Don't..

Sometimes I do.. 

Sometimes I send you sweet messages
Sometimes I don't;

Sometimes I reply to your messages
Sometimes I don't;

Sometimes I call you everyday
Sometimes I don't;

Sometimes I think of you and our happy times together
Sometimes I don't;

Sometimes I smile at you
Sometimes I don't;

Sometimes I am your adviser  
Sometimes i don't;

Sometimes I am the kind ear listening to your miseries
Sometimes I am not;

Sometimes I am the  strong "shoulder to cry on"
Sometimes I am not..  

BUT...

No matter how many times that SOMETIMES is,
I will always be here..
YOU will always be in my heart..
YOU will always be my FRIEND,
FOREVER!